Kāore te kumara e kōrero mō tōna ake reka

A few words to celebrate my husband, Erik, on this special day.

Although I have only known Erik a few years, his capacity for living life to the full, still takes my breath away.  Erik manages to squeeze so many things into every day, he has a zest for life.

I think he is a little crazy when it comes to biking adventures, and I have become a bike widow on numerous occassions.  He gets up at 4am to go for a 3 hour ride in the dark, (and rain).  We both share a love of food, and experiencing the outdoors, although I do like to be separated from the elements when it gets a little cold, (and wet).

Kāore te kumara e kōrero mō tōna ake reka
The kumara does not say how sweet he is

Erik is a successful man, who does things well.  He quietly gets on with what needs to be done. He never asks for recognition for the time he puts into the community, he just does it.

Erik's honesty is one of his shining strengths of character.  The past 18 months have been hell for all of us.  Erik has been bullied, lied to, betrayed, and called an idiot.  Throughout this whole tragic nightmare, he has stood up for the truth.  Erik is a good man, and a great parent.  He is my husband and I am so proud of him.

The love Erik has for his children is beyond words.  The first time I saw Oscar and Anneke in Erik's presence, I could feel the love emanating from him.  They are the most important part of Erik's life.  Erik is a hands on parent, guiding and encouraging the urchins.  Erik has always inspired me to be a better parent.

 I am honoured to be the love of his life.

Erik, I will always look up to you.

Happy 50th Birthday!